(that's not like he's activelly looking for a job though. He has anxiety attacks each time he remotely tries to look for a job and can't figure out how to snap out of it, despite me paying for a therapist for him. It's been six months. I know depression is hard to snap out of, but how am I supposed to avoid burn out when I'm living for 2 grown men for such a long time? I can't take a holiday cause I have to pay rent. And groceries. And bills. At this point I'm feeling numb.)