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I sent an email wishing my mom a happy mother's day.
I continue to perform this minimal effort guilt-based obeisance despite a fraught relationship, because I so easily see how I could have become her without a support network and modern mental health resources and activism against stigmatization.
tldr; take care of yourselves everyone you're worth it you don't have to become your parents.
