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I tend not to tell people that my wife has breast cancer because people eventually bring God into the conversation and go on about how I need to find him because the shit she's going through is part of his "divine plan". 'Cause then I gotta bite my damn tongue to keep from saying that if I do find God, that asshole is gonna need a guardian angel.
That's what i meant by insensitive, they don't know or care about your beliefs, and if I was pessimistic, I'd say their religious responses are entirely a socially normative display of "good faith" rather than a true concern for you and your wife. Or even worse, a way to cop out on actually caring by bringing up the great Deresponsabilizer.