People confuse me. Suppose someone brings you a present of home baked brownies, but you don't like brownies. Giving them back is rude, but to me "wasting" their efforts by taking and throwing out the brownies seems far more disrespectful.
@sesquipedality I would LOVE to have a dilemma like 'What should I do with these brownies?' nom nom
@sesquipedality You could share them with people who like brownies.