@redacted i have tried it (hetero only) in various positions: sideways, man on top, woman on top and have so far found them all uncomfortable. i think for me it is in part due to the fact that i do not want to *receive* oral for as long as i want to *give* oral so at some point i just become very frustrated by it. receiving oral is something i derive very limited pleasure from and i don't usually want it to go on for more than, like, a minute or two.