@starbreaker I get that too. Personally, I've identified, since I was 7 or 8 years old, for more than 40 years, as a feminist. Because when I was younger, we masculine feminists were very few and far between, and it was a revolutionary act. But now not so much. Even with my Women's Studies minor and my provable activism, it's becoming less and less sure that I can ID as feminist. And tbh, some arguments against seem a bit TERFy, but not all of them.