tfw when your OkCupid profile, which is set to be invisible to str8s and specifically states you're looking to meet other queer people, still gets messages from straight guys saying 'i may not be queer but I want to talk to you anyway'
no offense to 'heteroflexible' people but every single one I've interacted with on OKC has been a straight guy looking to game on queer women/femmes trying to avoid them