15/ I was the newcomer to the group, they all knew each other, and their night winding down--so I started asking them questions about their lives and their work. Oh, we have great jobs, our employers aren't bad like some of the stories you hear, one told me. (And you do hear--of the woman who fell from her boss' balcony under suspicious circumstances, etc.) Her friend said Noooo, she's a writer, we have to tell her the complicated version of our stories!