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> be me
> make server literally with the goal of making it easy and cheap to host, because i think it empowers people to host their own infrastructure
> 1 year later
> "hey Pleroma could be pretty good for people without many resources, even if the devs are all horrible people"
@lain

i think people are starting to realize that we are not horrible people :)
Christopher Lemmer Webber @cwebber

@kaniini I suspect a lot of the hate for Pleroma comes from two sources:

- Historic "political division" between GNU Social and Mastodon as in terms of leftie vs alt-right (which wasn't even GNU Social's developers' doing or desire really), some folks from that space moving to Pleroma and thus to a lot of folks Pleroma being mentally branded that way
- @lain is the fediverse's class clown and recent events have lead many people to associate that kind of irreverent humor with undesirable stuff

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@cwebber @kaniini @lain First reason makes sense, but the second reason is kind of ridiculous.

@deadsuperhero @kaniini I'm not making a judgement call, just giving my analysis

also I don't know how @lain will feel about being labeled "the fediverse's class clown" but I suspect they won't deny it ;)

@cwebber @lain @kaniini @deadsuperhero

honestly...thanks for the input personally I have no idea of its use but ay, maybe it will help :)

@deadsuperhero @kaniini @lain fwiw I'm glad Pleroma exists and I hope that:

a) development continues and is great
b) a diverse set of users adopt it

does Pleroma have a code of conduct btw? Might send (part of) the right message to adopt one

@hector @cwebber @lain @kaniini @deadsuperhero Du bist kein Gangster, nein, denn du dealst mit Dope (dealst mit Dope).
Du bist nicht real.
Du bist nur Show (Nur. Show.)

@deadsuperhero @lain @kaniini @cwebber The second really does hold some heft with a certain large segment of Mastodon users, though. Talk is cheap says the maxim, but for people who are always on social media, talk is literally everything -- the measure of a person. So joking about things that are off-limits to them is a very serious sort of offense.

@cwebber @kaniini

@lain was literally one of the first people I muted on Mastodon and only a week or two after I muted them I realized "oh shit they're the pleroma person wtf"

@phoe @kaniini well.. I've subscribed to @lain and unsubscribed again before a few times, and looking at their timeline, stuff like pleroma.soykaf.com/objects/a72 and pleroma.soykaf.com/objects/b93 is why, and probably is why people get that impression.

(Lain, sorry to talk about you in the third person as if you aren't here. But consider that feedback I guess?)

Serious question: how do you handle life if you can't handle these posts ?
@cwebber @lain @kaniini @phoe I honestly don't see how either of those posts could be construed as negative

the first is lain making fun of signs being the wrong way, the second is lain saying yikes to someone posting an obvious jewish stereotype

@pea @lain @kaniini @phoe not what I see when I read them. The first one looks like it's making fun of women organizing together, and the second looks like it's making fun of jewish noses.

And maybe you could make the argument that your interpretation is correct, but it's very hard to distinguish between ironic-social-commentary-meta-bigotry and actual-bigotry, *especially* in this era.

@cwebber @phoe @kaniini @lain my argument isn't even that it's "ironic-social-commentary-meta-bigotry" it's that you'd have to be already looking at lain from a certain perspective to see either as bigotry, ironic or otherwise, or you'd have to be going out of your way to see the worst in the things people say for some reason
@cwebber @lain @kaniini @phoe
>The first one looks like it's making fun of women organizing together
Yes and ?
It's a mistake people making mistake can be fun.
>and the second looks like it's making fun of jewish noses.
And ?
>*especially* in this era.
Are you saying that people who take quotes/images of other people and then interpret them elsewhere are a problem ?
Would you please elaborate. Making such responses does not help me to understand your point of view. The only thing that you let me understand from your post is disdain towards the precedent post.

@mangeurdenuage I'll elaborate, but only because you said "please".

> Yes and ?
> It's a mistake people making mistake can be fun.
You said "yes, and?" to making fun of women organizing. It looks like categorically like misogynistic skepticism that women can successfully organize.

>> and the second looks like it's making fun of jewish noses.
> And ?
Does it need elaboration? Right now when literal nazis are being normalized again?

That's as much elaboration as I'm giving.

>>You said "yes, and?" to making fun of women organizing. It looks like categorically like misogynistic skepticism that women can successfully organize.
This is where we are disagreeing but that's just because we have both different definition of misogyny and different interpretation of the scene, and that's ok.
For me it's just making fun of a silly mistake that some people did and that's all, I don't overthink to the point of asking myself if there's an inferior sex.
>>Does it need elaboration? Right now when literal nazis are being normalized again?
Again that's just because we think and interpret differently and it's very interesting for my pov.
Is it reasonable to think that everyone who makes a jokes about X stereotype is actively supporting a specific ideology ? I do not say that such people do not exist I'm saying that it is improbable irl to have people who really believe such things.
>>That's as much elaboration as I'm giving.
Thank you for being cordial.
I would like to exchange more in the future. I really would like to understand why there's such difference in our way of understanding/seeing the world.
Again thank you.

When I looked at those posts, I saw them the way @cwebber did, but what @pea sees also made a lot of sense to me. Either way, when I've seen these kinds of things from @lain , even when they do look "bad", they've never been very clearly bad. As someone who is very frequently misinterpreted (due to flat affect mostly) I don't think it's fair to project an interpretation onto lain in these situations, especially when lain has otherwise always said good/"progressive" things.

@kaniini @phoe

@jordyd @pea @kaniini @phoe Yeah I'm not saying @lain is bad and I agree that I've seen a lot of good things from them

what I'm saying is why a lot of people are getting that *impression*, and why I totally understand that

Notably, this is why I called Lain the fediverse's class clown :P

@cwebber
Oh no worries, this was more a general comment/perspective than a criticism, as I didn't see you as really making that claim either.
@pea @kaniini @phoe @lain

@pea @cwebber @lain
@kaniini actually it is not really about either of these two posts to me - it's more about me not being used to the fact that the tech leader for a project can be such a massive and shameless shitposter

@pea @cwebber @lain @kaniini TIL you can effectively shitpost using just the Mastodon favourite button

time to go to sleep

@phoe @kaniini @lain @cwebber i sincerely hope you never have to interact with half of the core developers and project leads i've interacted with on fedi :p
@pea @phoe @kaniini @lain @cwebber i shitpost pretty hard for a core dev

this is my private acocunt and dont discuss what I work on much here though. And I wouldn't dream of bringing up my fedi account to fellow contributors.

Lain can shitpost because lain is behind the shield of anonymity, and lain is working on a project that isn't serious buisness. I wish for that kind of freedom. All the more power to lain for pulling it off and having fun.

@phoe @pea @cwebber @lain @kaniini I sincerely don't understand why that would bother you

@sonya @lain @cwebber @pea @phoe

I mean I generally live my life assuming "hacker" "news" is a gigantic shitpost.

How is this any different?

@kaniini @lain @cwebber @pea @phoe maybe this is atypical or just varies a lot based on personality, but I enjoy shitposts!

that isn't how I would personally describe HN though, lotta effortful commenters on there

@kaniini @sonya @lain @cwebber @pea @phoe it's legit and natural that people would expect much higher standards from the development teams of projects with potentially large societal impact imo

@lichen @phoe @pea @cwebber @lain @sonya

sure but when shit gets serious were always serious at the table :)

@kaniini @phoe @pea @cwebber @lain @sonya it's good to hear, but also what is 'serious' depends a lot on cultural frameworks and it can be perceived differently depending on different privilege levels of the regarding angle. to put it simply, what's joke for somebody can turn out to be humiliation for others

@lichen @sonya @lain @cwebber @pea @phoe

generally speaking the jokes lain makes aren't really at anyone's expense

@kaniini @sonya @lain @cwebber @pea @phoe it's not my place to delve into specific examples, and I wasn't referring necessarily to just one developer, I instead wanted to point out that for a social media platform to be inclusive and attractive to a wide community the software itself is not enough, it takes a lot of effort and it needs input from multiple cultural fronts

@lichen @phoe @pea @cwebber @lain @sonya

considering we have many regular contributors who are not cis white men, I think we are doing quite well on that front.

@kaniini @phoe @pea @cwebber @lain @sonya then all the best wishes that this can get you to foster a truly inclusive community and counter-act the 'white-cis-male' prevalence problem that a lot of tech projects suffer of

@cwebber @kaniini @lain Can you suggest some material for me to read on the background of the GNU Social / Mastodon politics?

@aidalgol @kaniini @lain Urgh, no I don't know of a good writeup, but here's the tl;wh (too long; wasn't here):

- StatusNet written and the base of most of GNU Social (and generally written and had a community that was very lefty, but occasionally left-libertarian) but StatusNet closes shop. GNU Social is the continuation.
- "chan culture", originally jokingly problematic (arguably joking doesn't make it less racist or sexist), becomes "ha ha only completely serious"

(1/2)

@aidalgol @kaniini @lain

- many chan'ish alt-right folks kicked off of twitter, start to move to GNU Social instances. (Plenty of GNU Social instances not happy with this notably!)
- Mastodon comes along, supports OStatus (GNU Social's protocol)
- leftie, largely LGBT folks *also* leave Twitter, for the opposite reason! Many flock to Mastodon.
- Unsurprisingly, plenty of folks start to interpret this as GNU Social vs Mastodon as alt-right vs left, which is unfortunate

(2/...3?)

@aidalgol @kaniini @lain

- Mastodon starts moving from OStatus to ActivityPub. Some of the squabbling spills over into that. Awkward
- Pleroma begins using ActivityPub very actively, and that's when octodon.social/@cwebber/100239 begins to apply IMO

(3/3)

Anyway, that's my own personal interpretation and read of that history...

@cwebber @aidalgol @kaniini trev's article provides some more context but yeah i agree with this account of things

medium.com/@Trevatos/gnu-socia

with old mastos, i think probably 75% of the hate comes from negative associations from way back when pleroma was just a GS frontend and masto was limited to just m.s and our options were basically federate with people who hated us or don't federate at all. the fediverse has changed a lot since then…

@cwebber @aidalgol @kaniini also pleroma has taken masto's place in the fediverse as "the new kid on the block who doesn't quite implement everything the way they should yet" and catches shit for it the same way we used to :P

@kibi @cwebber Yeah, just wait until some totally new microblogging platform comes out, developed by someone that no one in the space was aware of. 😛

@deadsuperhero @kibi just wait till Spritely becomes un-vaporware and I either do activitypub completely wrong in the greatest source of irony ever OR I do everything completely right but start doing things that other "real world" implementations don't support!

@cwebber @kibi Also, if I may give you shit for 0.1 seconds, when is MediaGoblin getting ActivityPub capabilities? You know that it's desperately needed. 😛

@deadsuperhero @kibi I'm not working on MediaGoblin's current-mediagoblin codebase right now so I can't say ;)

My whole spare time focus is spent on MediaGoblin TNG (aka Spritely)

@deadsuperhero @kibi I know, I know. I've gone through plenty of mental anguish over how to spend the time I have for this, and it's easy for me to self-doubt that, and I don't blame anyone giving me shit for it

but I have my reasons

@cwebber @deadsuperhero ur reasons are good and they'll be even better once they're not vaporware and made into a working implementation 😉😜

@cwebber @kibi I get it, but wasn't MediaGoblin your initial push to make ActivityPub a thing?

What would it even take to get it federating with other fediverse multimedia platforms at this point? I'd love to be able to federate with the LibrePlanet MG instance so that I can watch the talks and comment on them from PeerTube.

@deadsuperhero @cwebber

Point of order: MediaGoblin is older than ActivityPub, older than pump.io even.

I still remember when the guy on identi.ca with the weird cute alien monster avatar said he was planning to write a better gallery application and I was thinking "yeah right, aren't we all".

Well, he sure showed me. <3

@notclacke @deadsuperhero ha... I wasn't anticipating anyone would take me seriously either. What a journey it's been!

@deadsuperhero @kibi Also, *is* it desperately needed? One of the reasons I shifted to Spritely is because other folks (Funkwhale, PixelFed, PeerTube) were covering MediaGoblin's domain... and well too! (Though none of them are doing "all the media types" like MediaGoblin was, but I can't for the life of me figure out why they wouldn't... @Chocobozzz, when are you gonna wise up and add multiple media types support to PeerTube? ;))