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Delusions of Gender by Cordelia Fine does an excellent job of examining and synthesizing research on gender and debunking commonly held beliefs about aptitudes for mathematics and language. I'm planning to reread it soon and have been recommending it a lot recently. (I consumed it as an audio book, but I believe I saw a free PDF version at some point as well.)
