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I sometimes conceal my gender online to avoid gender-based bullshit. For instance, I'm a newbie coder, and there's no indication on my GitHub that I'm a woman. I don't want people associating my crap code with my gender, rather than my newbieness. Not sure how this jibes with the need to support trans and non-binary folks by including pronouns!
