I am not interested in algorithmic curation of my feed on any media network unless I can tell the algorithm that, unconditionally, the most important posts to me are the most recent. (This is why I have largely stopped using Instagram; if I can't disable the algorithm then your feed is worthless to me.)
@noelle Internet companies especially social networks are forced to care about 'you'. But only in the plural sense of that pronoun--on the aggregate, that is to say averaging all of us out. To them saying "I desperately need x" is totally immaterial. It's not about ability to demonstrate need. They "listen" in that they accept your data point and if they hear it a threshold number of times, they check the last 5 years of numbers to see if βyouβ do or not in fact need x. Bad way.