Tip: if you're going to advertise your thing as 'new members welcome, just turn up!' maybe put up some kind of instructions so new members know what we're supposed to do when we get here.
@Inskora I honestly find stuff like this so anxiety inducing, Would it kill them to just be a bit more specific or give more information? Kinda feels like there are a load of invisible rules that no one bothers to explain :-p