This shouldn't be a hot take but: Show more
Asexuals & Aromantics are valid
Gay Ace/Aros are valid
Trans Ace/Aros are valid
Cis Hetero Ace/Aros are valid
Cisphobia and heterophobia are pretty common things amidst the LGBTQA+ community and for understandable reasons!
Don't let bad experiences with and distrust of cis/hetero folks inspire you to punch down at asexuals and aromantics. It's a (differently but still) hard world out there for our ace and aro frens; help keep our spaces safe for them too!!