I finally managed to send this work e-mail I was so reluctant to send (Basically: I know you worked hard for 2 month on this but it's not helpful and we discussed before why it wouldn't be and it's no suprise that it isn't) Sometimes it takes time to find the right tone, but the right tone can be very important especially if you potentially have to work together again.
My boss needs to have that same conversation with that persons boss and he told me today "haven't talked to him yet... I'm waiting to get into the right mood" :D I feel you!
@Virelai Looks like you have a sensible boss. That's great! I wonder how it is working in Germany. You have a reputation of being really stricts.
@windmills Ah I don't know, I think he can have quite a hot temper, at least that's his reputation, although in the 5 years we worked together, I never experienced it. I think he has grown milder in the past years, but he's also self aware and always knew that he can be difficult, so he tries to factor that in ;) Like he warned me when I started working for him and that it would be ok to call him out etc.
@Virelai Looks like a great boss.
I had the best customers in academia. You people are great!
