@GinnyMcQueen I do what I can, when I can. I *do* give money to feminist causes, I try to support and listen and advocate for those causes. I think that's baseline good behaviour.

But despite all that, I'll never have your lived experience, and even after putting myself out there, I'll never get the same backlash that you will.

I'm trying to answer the question of why you don't get dogpiled in kindness, but really, the answer is still "I don't know," or, "men are bad." :/