@cyberlesbiab honestly most of the people I've seen who don't like the term use the same arguments that came up in the original use of LGBT: they want to seem "normal" and "fit in." I rarely find people who've had serious adversity due to their queerness who are active in the community who dislike the term
I feel like Tumblr is just a place where people aren't just misinformed, they're angry and misinformed