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Cliche but true:
Q: Where to you want to eat?
A: I don't know where do you want to eat?
And repeat until it's too late to go out or relationship is destroyed
@Thehatter Heh reminds me of the David Rabe play "Hurlyburly"
@upside had not seen that, very funny and true