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Found this place near Chapel Hill. Sign on the door says "refugees welcome". And they're a living wage employer. And they have Scrabble. (And the beer is good too.) #nuffsaid #steelstring
Update: there's a rainbow "Safe Space" sticker on the door and the restroom sign says "All Gender Restroom" 👍