Thea Barnes 💖 @theabarnes@octodon.social

I think I might be asexual.

I've recently come to realize that my passivity about sex isn't being submissive.

Like, it always felt off to say I'm submissive, I'm actually somewhat assertive once it starts. I just rarely (if ever) have interest in starting it.

I'd rather cuddle and have casual contact, and I'm starting to realize that I might just be asexual (or at least demisexual).

When a weather pattern sounds like a #MegaMan weapon, it's probably bad news. #BombCyclone https://octodon.social/media/GJQ1PSCmKzYpug7THXY

@paulfree14 I'm planning to republish them to a privately run blog, I just haven't gotten around to it yet 🤷

Just curious, why do you object to Medium?

My #trans goals for 2018:

Legal name change
Correct name and gender on ID
Facial hair removal
Vocal training

But I'd settle for the first two, since money has been the only thing stopping those

The dinner with my wife's parents went surprisingly well! They were nice (though they just avoided gendering me rather than using my proper pronouns), and they were even nicer to my wife than they used to be! 💖

omg I have more work! So I'll be able to make the money I need to get through the month 😁💖🎉

Anybody looking for a good web dev / devops person? I need to make at least $2000 before January 12th and the contract that was my main source of income is on hold, probably until after the holidays 😓

@odinsdream I know, right? My wife's sister claims he's really trying though, and I know my wife would love if her parents actually were willing to make peace. But we do have escape plans ready, and it's in a restaurant, not at their house.

I'm honestly not sure whether I'm more worried he'll be transphobic, or that he'll treat me the way he treats other women 🤢

Wow, so my wife's parents want us to go to dinner with them on Christmas Eve.
We haven't seen them since before I even started transitioning, and her father hasn't even directly spoken to us since I came out.
I'm super nervous, because... well... let's just say Donald Trump is her father's role model.

I'm really in love with Firefox Quantum, it's *so* good

I looked up to my sister our whole lives, she just seemed so amazing and cool, and I always wished she'd take me under her wing, like other girls big sisters did. But she'll never see me as her sister, and it breaks my heart into tiny pieces knowing she'll never really accept me 💔

There's no real point to this post, just needed to get these feelings out 😕

@starbreaker that's an awesome idea 💖

They definitely need to make that game!