I think I might be asexual.

I've recently come to realize that my passivity about sex isn't being submissive.

Like, it always felt off to say I'm submissive, I'm actually somewhat assertive once it starts. I just rarely (if ever) have interest in starting it.

I'd rather cuddle and have casual contact, and I'm starting to realize that I might just be asexual (or at least demisexual).