@creatrixtiara oof yea. I saw that whole thing from afar and it sounded fucking awful

I meant like a local admin that you trust to some extent. Other instance admins are ???? extremely unknown quantities.

The ability to start a server doesn't make you good at responding to people's complaints. But if you're running an instance with an extensive & protective COC you should be up to enforcing that or building a team of moderators who are