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I joined mastodon and loved the generally friendlier atmosphere (which I realize has not exactly been everybody's experience here)

But the longer I've used it, the more I've realized how much I love the freedom from ads, trackers, and feed algorithms

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not to say that I don't think the community atmosphere isn't a major selling point / isn't still good.

I just don't think I realized before how much an effect some of the actual platform's features have

@tcql It warps your mind. On Twitter I found myself behaving like a brand: self-promotion, curating my "personal brand," always being bland and milquetoast. In retrospect it shouldn't be surprising since that's what the platform is honed for.

@nolan yea, on twitter, I tweeted about work or tried to make polished / shiny tech showoff gifs. Sometime in the last year it slid entirely into "argh i'm mad about politics" but before that it was all brand-y.

Here I'm much more a whole person. I make shitposts and get some likes & laughs, but mostly I just toot about what I'm thinking or feeling or I care about.

@tcql This feels far more natural to me.

@tcql And for a lot of us! Thanks to be there like everyone there :-)

@tcql you're still getting screwed. It's a scam. #Mastodon is a fake #federated walled garden of censorship. Fat, barefoot & pregnant..🚼👎
@tcql the friendly atmosphere is what M. Scott Peck would call "pseudo-community", folks being all diplomatic and nice because it's all new
@tcql the chaos will come, as it always does, when people settle in and start to really speak their minds. What happens then is up to us.
@tcql in his book 'The Different Drum' Peck says people try to escape chaos in a few common wags, but the only way *out* is via "emptiness"
I was once a part of an group in facebook. It was very friendly, people were nice. But then came Indian national level elections and people were divided left and right. There were ugly fights. Some quit the group in disgust. Things were never the same again.

Everyone got to see the sides of others they had been hiding for long and it was not pleasant.