@FlaviaRini your statement falls apart at closer examination.
I don't get threatened with rape. I can state, unequivocally, that I am at man, and no one will assume I am mentally ill, or find it necessary to subject me to surgery.
Most interestingly, no one can make people do these things to me, without extraordinary effort.
Some forms of power are more effective, require less effort, are subject to less accountability, and are less accessible than others.