@FlaviaRini no. men, as in cis men, are subject to PREJUDICE.

i use the definition of racism and sexism and homophobia that uses the “prejudice against group + power to make these prejudices have impact”, because it's far more useful, and you can measure the effects.

otherwise you get into pointless definition fights that get nowhere.

@tariqk there are different kinds of power. Influence, coercion, autority, violence, etc. so everyone can be racist and suffer from racism because those kind of powers are accesible to almost everyone

@FlaviaRini your statement falls apart at closer examination.

I don't get threatened with rape. I can state, unequivocally, that I am at man, and no one will assume I am mentally ill, or find it necessary to subject me to surgery.

Most interestingly, no one can make people do these things to me, without extraordinary effort.

Some forms of power are more effective, require less effort, are subject to less accountability, and are less accessible than others.

@tariqk I'm sorry but you can't narrow down the concepts when someone provide you a reasonable counter argument racism: prejudice + power. and yes rape is a serious issue but it's a crime like killing, i don't receive rape threats either, i'm sure i'm more likely to be raped than a men, but a man is more likely to be killed

@FlaviaRini by whom?

men get killed, but not because they are men. they are killed as peers.

women, too, are killed. but not as peers.

queer people, too, are killed. but not as peers. trans people, the same.

you'll notice that the numbers are there, and if you correct for total in populations? women, queer people and trans people suffer a disproportionate amount more.

@tariqk when boko haram or the islamic state goes to a city, they kill the men, just because they're men. The women get to live. The same happens with the guerrillas in south america. The same happens in a hostile situation and it doesn't matter WHY you're being killed, a life is a life. a queer person is just as dead as a men and a woman if they're killed. All lifes are precious.

@FlaviaRini

oh my god. do you even know what you're talking about?

Both Da'esh and Boko Haram kill the men and the boys of their captured territories NOT because they are men, but because they belong to religious groups that both Boko Haram and Da'esh slaughter. As a matter of fact, both groups share the same strand of takfiri Salafism that say that, because Muslims that oppose them are “kuffar”, it is permissible to kill and enslave them.

@tariqk if you're killed because you're trans is just as bad as if you're killed because they want to steal your phone. No one should be killing, no one should be dying. it is not a competition.

@FlaviaRini you're really, really not getting this.

please don't contact me any more. I hope you gain enough life experience to figure out what the fuck is wrong with your worldview.

@FlaviaRini there have been moments in my life where I have listened, in absolute horror, of the violence subjected to women and queer people that are not only difficult to accept, but difficult to comprehend.

I don't have a tenth of what they're experiencing. I cannot believe that this is something that needs to be disputed.

@Hallucinogen cute. fuck off.

@bea Thank you. I'm hard-curating my space now.

I was expecting this day to be honest.

Lots of teachable moments, illustrative exercises. Stay tuned.

@tariqk ok, let me know if I can do anything or if you wanna talk or whatever

@bea thank you. I'll be leaning on my offline circle for this, but I see your offer and I appreciate you reaching out. I hope things go okay for you, too.