building a new profile on a new social network where everybody proclaims their gender and sexual identities prodded me to think about this again

tldr i don't feel like i should identify as bisexual anymore, but it feels bad to admit that. not because "i changed my mind" (i didn't; there's just more nuance) but because it contributes to bisexual erasure/invisibility.

and it might be a stupid thing to worry about since i'm very much off the market anyway

https://tilde.town/~pho4cexa/20171121-technically.html

@pho4cexa I totally feel where you're coming from; I'm in a very similar place in my life. Personally I try to worry less about how I label myself and more about trying to create a world where all people who identify as queer are safer, freer, and happier; sounds like you can agree with a goal like that.