Everyone who gave me your kind words, I thank you. But holy fuck, I'm confused now. The urn posted under her name, with just the last name was posted to a group I'm in. But now I can't find it. So while at work, I panicked, thinking I'd been blocked, and I couldn't locate any of their pages. I got home, and noticed I had a message request from him on the 2nd. And he's posting regularly.