FYI everyone a lot of people put things like "No TERFs" under their "who you don't want to be matched with" field and unfortunately I dooon't know everyone in the world? so i will make sure you don't get matched with specific people but i can't do categories like "nobody who would misgender me" because while i want that for you too i'm not hand-matching people and don't know who would do that or not. I'm assuming most people on here are Good People and just gonna be REAL optimistic about that
TBH if I was hand-matching everyone and i knew someone was bonafide undeniably a TERF i would just remove them from the gift exchange. Like, you all know it's Shel, trans enby cop-hater extraordinaire, running this thing. if i *knew* there was a TERF signed up it'd be out of character and irresponsible of me to just leave them in there.
That said I'm not removing controversial figures that some love and some hate. that's what the "name ppl you don't wanna interact w" field is for
