@eifie this was a nice topic to read. i am gender fluid and have a difficult time encouraging people to use he/him pronouns even though i like to receive all pronouns (she/her, he/him, they/them). i think most people consider me cis by default. its also been hard to open up as gender fluid here on mastodon because of a couple lost souls who invalidated that experience by claiming that all nb genders weren't possible or real. thank you.