@lemurchild I have been there and it SUCKS. I'm sorry. The disappointment is real and you are not wrong to feel it.
I know you'll do your best.
Then, find a way to plan for a day off with no child responsibilities. Even if it has to be farther into the future than you'd like, having it on the books really helps, in my experience.
Good luck to you!
@reedsandstrings Yeah, the reason I'm so disappointed is that I *did* have a day on the books. This was it. LOL. The kid was supposed to be at his dad's...