pledged for a digital download of a movie on indiegogo, just realized i never got the download link. pinged the creator via ig, and they responded immediately, which was awesome. but they sent a link to a streaming service with no ability to download. trying to figure out a non-asshole way to say, no, i want the download i pledged for.
this stuff drives me crazy...i don't want to be a pushover, but even as minor a confrontation as this makes me super uncomfortable.
@chalcedony yeah, that's kind of the approach i took. rationally, i know that's a reasonable approach. but convincing myself i'm not being a dick or unreasonable, and getting over the oogy "must avoid anything that might potentially be a confrontation" feels is always a thing.
thanks for the support!
@rascalking One step at a time, and all that. ^..^