Even in Arcadia Am I is a user on octodon.social. You can follow them or interact with them if you have an account anywhere in the fediverse.
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18/ And by leaving to support your family, you have some control over the narrative: rather than leaving a shitty husband or boyfriend who felt entitled to all the promises patriarchal parochialism offers and being burdened with the reputation of a failed relationship (or pressured to try again), instead you're making good, giving--financially--rather than taking--via a degraded reputation.
