case in point: "Women Aren't Nags—We're Just Fed Up "
http://www.harpersbazaar.com/culture/features/a12063822/emotional-labor-gender-equality/
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Then I tried to gingerly explain the concept of emotional labor: that I was the manager of the household, and that being manager was a lot of thankless work.
"""
they got a whole pdf backing up this definition, which is not even about emotions in the first place!
ffs
words. they have meanings, people.