I dislike the term "emotional labor".

more specifically, I dislike how it was coined to describe one thing (the part of your day job where apart from bringing people food you have to wear a happy face and say "I'm sorry" even when it's not your fault (iirc)) and then people started using it for like three completely different things, just like that willy nilly.
things that are real, valid and worth discussing, but should find their own term!