So could I just go "Hey I'm a weird gay enby pagan furry, ask me anything" and people would, and it would not be terrible?
Let's try it out!
@latrani Are you still accepting questions?
@Gargoylezoo Eh, sure, go for it. :)
@Gargoylezoo This is actually a pretty complicated question, largely because I don't key off of physical appearance that hard to begin with. And then also to the extent that I do it's admittedly still somewhat male-skewing too (hence gay-as-in-male, as previously mentioned), though preferably the non-traditional, 'queer' sort of such.
@latrani cool! thanks for taking the time!
@Gargoylezoo There ARE physical descriptors that suggest non-binariness though; there's this joke about the 'enby uniform' that usually involves dyed hair, an undercut, and soft-punk clothing, and I'd be lying if I didn't admit that look catches my attention. That though it's definitely a cultural signifier, and it does feel like a different SORT of attention compared to the (fairly rare) times when I find myself going 'that guy is cute.'
@latrani Most people are initially attracted to others by the secondary sexual characteristics of the binary gender they prefer. Since you are (generally) attracted to non-binary folks, are there any physical characteristics that you key on when you find yourself attracted to someone? (just asking out of curiosity, don't answer if you're not comfortable with it.)