@cathal
I actually like "no at". Sometimes someone will share something just to vent.

In real life this is easy enough to sense, yet it still took me a good long time to get this. If someone complains about their shitty day start by showing some empathy and saying "that sucks". Maybe later you can suggest a fix.

On Mastodon I really like that most people are going out of their way to be nice towards each other, so I would want to respect this. The "no at" makes this really clear.