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IKEA Femme ⚧ πŸ³οΈβ€πŸŒˆ @ikea_femme@octodon.social

like for real I just had that realization that I was staying on Mastodon more than I was wanting to head out to get something for myself to eat

and I'm suddenly reminded of that rat with an electrode on its pleasure centers, pressing that button, neglecting everything until death.

then I'm reminded of the possible implications of Rat Park, and I whisper to myself…

β€œwhat have we done to ourselves”

I'm officially a again since I don't have to post as a sockpuppet with pervazette questions or my deadname. New profile at metafilter.com/user/256607

Vous savez, je crois qu'on a bien fait de quitter Twitter, le niveau des Γ©changes est bien meilleur ici.

octodon.social/media/MLPEXkNNL

Well, I guess I can finally tell the cis what it's like. Thanks, Femme4memes from Facebook!

Anyone else getting weird reflow issues on the leftmost column (where you compose toots) when you turn on the federated stream? It keeps blinking even as I'm typing, and while it doesn't lose my text, it drives me nuts.

Aw hell, we do like our fart puns. So fuck it, we're callin' em BEANS

What's a cool paleolithic plant to name the mastodon microvideo service?

'd Love to find more open-minded LGBTQ people on here but a hashtag search doesn't take me out of the federated timeline so I need boosts or recommendations. #LGBTQ

In retrospect, needing complex cryptography to keep track of my sprawling personas is pretty Philip K. Dick. I do draw parallels between A Scanner Darkly and Do Androids Dream of Electric Sheep to the trans experience, but that's because I do that for everything.

I've heard people suggest using Keybase.io as a way to prove ownership of new accounts on different instances. But for me, online, I have a couple different personas. Usernames for being a snarky pseudo-anonymous trans girl, usernames for my deadname, and now I guess professional trans woman serious business accounts. What I mean to say is, does this mean I need three separate keybase accounts? Or am I being dumb here, and does Keybase accommodate this usecase otherwise?

in an age where we are told we are only worth what we can buy there is no greater act of rebellion than kindness to ourselves and others

tired: cuck as a noun
wired: cuck as a verb
woke: cuck as a service

@aemarc I think about this a lot in context of Tumblr especially because the audience there is often very young and I think they sometimes have less of a grasp on compartmentalization. So I am very NO U R THE SUN AND THE MOON with my teenage sister when she gets self deprecating even though I joke about being trash all the time because I KNOW I'm fine, but I can't take that risk with her.

my one concern on mastodon is the joking self-deprecation

which is honestly something I noticed a lot on tumblr

inevitably all that negative joking kinda must impact a little on our idea of self

like if I keep joking about myself being garbage a little piece of me is gonna think I'm actually garbage

and I'm just a lil concerned that we encourage that too much w/ shitposting

I just think it's something to be aware of. It's something I personally am trying to be better about anyway.