I'm planning on getting srs. But I'm realizing that I probably will want some kind of community to discuss concerns and stuff with. Is that mainly Susan's and /r/asktransgender? I'm not too active in those places, and sort of don't like the publicness of them.

None of my trans friends on discord servers have had srs. I'm tired of talking about it and then having to justify it over and over. And nobody knows anything firsthand.