FIY, for those who haven't actually had a wedding, when you're 22 days out, you can't just say, "Eff it, we're going to City Hall and grabbing two friends to be our witnesses!" (which, yes, was our first plan and what we wanted to do) without serious financial, social, and familial ramifications. Plane tickets have been purchased. Deposits that are now non-refundable have been made. Friends have been invited. Dresses have been purchased (not just mine, but other people's).
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@filkerdave Oh, wow, this is the PERFECT metaphor for me. I love cooking, but the chopping and the washing grit out of leafy veggies and everything is the WORST.