and in colonialised nations, the imposition of fixed identities is violent far more than just conceptually. having indigenous names has been made illegal, children forced to take 'real' names. the objective is the eradication of one reality, one self-concept, and its forceful replacement with another
things like facebook's 'real name policy' resulting in banning native americans are not just techbro short-sightedness, they're a purposeful continuation of the same colonial violence
and i don't need to go into how the concept of 'real names' is weaponised against trans people and trans identities
i have no real name. i have a thousand masks with nothing behind. no part of me is fixed, no part of me is real
My legal name is far less unique than my online handle. I've personally run in to maybe a dozen people with my first and last names. I most certainly do not own my name's domain.
My last name is just uncommon enough to not seem fake. But it is a color, and other people use it as a fake name.
My first name has had a solid run among the 100 most popular children's names. (Popular among my age/ethnicity.)
There's a 95% chance that 'yam655' is always me, though. (I own _that_ domain.)
@esvrld That’s deep bro
@esvrld heard it referred to as "government name" which I liked as seemed most apt description of it.
@Syrel_And_Co @Luke @esvrld and shit I just looked up "Archuleta" and it's a lineage that goes back to Queen Isabella and has a registered crest. *that got taken from me* before I ever had a chance to know I could have it. and then, on the other side of that heritage... my father, in an attempt to reconcile with me that didn't actually involve apologizing for or mitigating any of the ways in which he was a giant dick, gave me a genealogy chart he'd researched about his family, and it was... telling, *extremely* telling, how five or six generations back there's a lot of "Signoir Fransisco de Varisa X Native Woman." like. a *lot*.
YAAAAAAY COLONIAL HISTORY IN MY GOT DAMN GENETICS YAAAAAAAAAAAAAY
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