One of my coworkers I don't see very often calls me "Robert", which is not my deadname, or anything remotely similar to my deadname, like it's not even the same ballpark
I've considered correcting him but I've put it off so long it seems awkward, plus I'm always like... why bother, you know? I'm just gonna make him change it to Emily pretty soon when I come out at work, may as well take care of it all at once
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I mean I'd be okay with him perpetually thinking Robert was my deadname, and I changed it when I came out? Either way it's not my name, like there are a lot of names that aren't mine, add it to the pile