@Pizzazz Heh. It's interesting to hear a line of thought so similar to my own but without the layer of anxiety that comes from actually being trans. It reminds me of when I was presenting a little femme back in the 90s, before I started thinking about gender identity. Apart from the awkward "false advertising" issue it never bothered me that people read me as a gay man... but the closeted gay guys I was hanging around with were a *lot* more worried about how they came across.