Sometimes I wish I knew other boring middle aged middle class trans women who just want a quiet life. I'm not sure I'm cut out for the political shitfight I seem to be caught up in. Sigh.

In retrospect though, I was always caught up in this. Regardless of what labels we use, the moment amab folks start performing femininity we become a target for transmisogyny by both cis men and cis women. It's just taken me a long time to realise what everyone around me has been doing all along. Oh well.