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I'm pansexual. I don't remember if I came out before. I also don't identify as my assigned gender but I also don't identify as trans either; mostly I'm not comfortable being on the binary (hence "all pronouns ok but spivak preferred") but I haven't worked on it.
However full ack that being married in an apparently heteronormative relationship I have all the social privilege granted a straight cis person. Largely for that I'm mostly quiet about it.