My new mantra is to accept things as they are in the world and change the things that I can to make the world better.
Instead of bitching why things aren't the way I want them to be maybe instead I can clean up my own area a bit.
Instead of wondering why I haven't implemented the grand plans in my head maybe I can do a little work on the things that I want to see implemented.
Maybe I can put more action into my life and less wishing things were different.
Octodon is a nice general purpose instance.