@zigg Right, you're in the thick of it and I can't fathom how you're beginning to cope with this.

From an analytical perspective I'd start a conversation like this with kindness and a hope that with kindness one can somehow smooth over the hurt and harmed feelings.

But then again I'm also the guy that drove by so I also understand why you might not want to have that conversation. Being exposed to the bast-furnaces of hate is not something I wish on anyone.