ooh I like this
@benhamill @Damage One of the big red flags on OkCupid is people who pick 'Yes' to "Is jealousy healthy in a relationship."
Yikes.
I'm not saying we're all perfect and jealousy is never gonna happen, but it should be treated as a problem to be resolved and talked through, not what you want to live with your whole life together.
@brwarner @Damage What. Yeah. My wife and I celebrate when we both got confident enough in each other's commitment to our agreed-upon relationship not to feel jealous over... stuff.