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one of the only positive memories that i have of my first girlfriend is her telling me about her theory that Loveless by MBV is about gender confusion and teenage questioning, and she pointed out that Kevin and Belinda mixed their vocals so they're all completely androgynous and muddled. I like thinking about that.
My Bloody Valentine - What You Want
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=azXLPL-iuSI
this song pretty well sums up my current situation RE: relationships and emotional co-dependency
even the title is a reference to being submissive and afraid