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So what do you do when your partner's parents disown them because of who they love?
Who makes the first move to reconcile? (I just want to yell at them, so I'm not the right person)
Said parents in this case are quite happy to accept children born out of wedlock of their grandchildren (they're conservative Catholics) but not at all accepting of same-sex relationships and nonmonogamy.
I'm very much in the frame of mind that if my parents were going to disown me, they can fuck right off and I won't attempt to change who I am to seek their approval.
My partner on the other hand is from an incredibly abusive household, and the surviving parent has learnt abusive behaviours from the other. So it's all twisted and fucked.