@ant No, we've only just started. Have had 1 lesson. I don't expect to see huge changes with that. I'd be happy if he learned to swim someday and that's enough. The key is OT; we do that twice a week and I wish it could be every day. His school is good; it's specifically for autistic kids, but progress is just very, very slow. And I'm not doing enough, because I'm depressed and it's hard. And trying to have my own stuff going on too.